We all have that little voice inside of us that feeds us thoughts about how we are lacking and not good enough. This voice has become an expertly skilled detective, that is always looking for clues to prove its case.
I get a lot of emails from readers describing how horrible their relationships were, but they are devastated now that their former partner is with someone else.
We always want to know – is he different with her? Does he treat her better than me? Is he happier with her?
We want to know the answers to these questions, because if the answer is yes, then our little detective can put that information in the evidence pile, that it was our fault thus proving that we aren’t good enough.